User Profile

i am a 54-year-old slave who has been in the BDSM lifestyle for about 8 years. i am currently single and uncollared. I live alone with my 5-year-old RES turtle, Zipper. i enjoy camping, hiking, sewing, reading and leatherwork.

i am content with my life, though i am still searching for the "One". Meanwhile i enjoy what life has to show me. i have so many wonderful, kinky people in my life who nurture and sustain me. i connect to them on different levels, some as warm and loving friends, some as sexual partners, some as S&M play partners. Most are a combination of all of these.

*smile i have no doubt that when the time is right, the Universe will put the right person or people in my life for me to connect with. For everything there is a season.

For now, i will seek relationships and open myself to them as they unfold with all of their possibilities and intricacies. If a collar is one of the those possibilities, then i welcome it. i am most attracted to people of masculine gender, a Master, Dominant, Dominant butch, male or FtM.

i still find myself fascinated with the idea of belonging to or helping to form a loving and stable leather family. The dynamics of that sort of relationship seem so strong and vital, just what i would like to have in my life, a family to love and belong to.

i am a poly person and i am happiest when in relationships that present both bisexual and loving poly relationships. If all members are truly in tune with the direction of the family and committed to each other, then poly can be heaven. If not, it is hell on earth. i don't do drama or jealousy and the first hint of it will drive me away.

i am very involved in the public lifestyle in Indianapolis. If you would like information about that, please feel free to contact me.

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